speed dating with middle ground…
SAT NOV 1ST 7PM
LITTLE THINGS CAFE BLACKBURN
Looking for a fun way to meet people? Our speed dating events are designed to break the ice, spark conversation, and help Christian singles 30–50 meet in real life — without the weird pressure. Think cozy venues, light hosting, meaningful conversations, and faith in the mix.
What is speed dating…
Speed dating is a structured event where you chat one-on-one with multiple people for short intervals (usually just a few minutes per person). It gives you a chance to meet a bunch of people in one evening in a friendly, low-pressure format.
We run our speed dating with values in mind: respect, authenticity, and fun. You’ll leave with more connections than you’d ever get swiping.
how does it work?
When you arrive, you’ll check in, get a name badge (or number), and get seated.
We’ll explain the flow: you’ll have a set number of rounds (e.g. 6–10), each lasting a few minutes each.
After your time’s up, you’ll rotate to the next person.
At the end of all rounds, you’ll fill out a “match list” of who you’d like to see again.
Matches happen only when two people mutually choose each other.
We’ll notify you of your matches after the event, so you can connect further.
do i need to bring anything?
Not much. Just come as you are, with a heart open to connection.
Some people bring:
A notepad or something to jot a quick note (to help you remember who said what).
A positive attitude and willingness to try something new.
We’ll handle the logistics — name tags, seating, timing, etc. You don’t need to bring a “date” or special prop — just show up ready to talk.
When you register, we’ll provide a lite of possible talking points in case you want to think through those answers ahead of time.
how do the matches work?
When you buy your ticket you’ll be able to create a profile for the event. At the end of the event, you’ll be able to use the app to mark who you liked, and who you did not. You’ll mark who you’d like to see again.
Only when both people say “yes” to each other does a match happen. Then we’ll let you know so you can chat further if you wish. You’ll get notified through the app and be able to chat with your matches directly through your own profile.
are matches guaranteed?
No — because relationships depend on mutual interest. We can’t force chemistry or connection. What we can do is build a respectful, faith-filled environment with lots of chances to meet people.
Even if a romantic match doesn’t happen right away, many people leave with new friendships, renewed hope, and a reminder that you’re not alone in this journey.
how do i get the most out of the event?
Show up on time. You don’t want to miss your chance in the early rounds.
Be yourself. Authenticity is more attractive than any “perfect line.”
Ask thoughtful questions. Use the short time wisely — find a real hook or interest and dig a little.
Smile. Kindness opens doors.
Don’t overthink it. Even awkwardness doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. Some of the best conversations start there.
Be bold. Introduce yourself, make your move, send that “yes” for a match.
Remember you’re worth it. Show up because you matter — not for validation, but because God delights in your desire for companionship.
Invite a friend. Bringing someone with you can take the edge off nerves — and you might both come away with new connections.
what to expect overall?
At Middle Ground speed dating, you can expect:
To meet a bunch of new people you’d likely never cross paths with otherwise.
A safe, encouraging space to step out of your comfort zone.
Real opportunities to spark new friendships and connections.
The chance to match with someone you’d like to explore more with.
A night that’s fun, engaging, sometimes a little nerve-wracking (in the best way!), and always worthwhile.
Whether you leave with a new friend, a potential date, or simply a story to tell — you’ll have taken a bold step toward love in real life.
WHAT IS THE SCHEDULE FOR THE NIGHT?
⏰ 6:45pm – Arrive, check in & grab a drink 🍹
⏰ 7:00pm – Welcome & how it all works 🙌
⏰ 7:15pm – Speed dating rounds begin 💬
⏰ 8:00pm – Quick break to mingle & refresh 🥂
⏰ 8:20pm – More speed dating rounds 💫
⏰ 9:00pm – Wrap-up & submit your matches 💌
⏰ 9:15pm onwards – Stick around for extra chats & connection ✨
Contact Us
We’d love to hear from you!
Whether you’ve got a question about our events, want to share your story, or just need a bit of encouragement as you step out in faith, we’re here.
Middle Ground is all about community — and community starts with connection. So don’t be shy. Send us a message, say hello, and let us know how we can walk alongside you.
📩 Email us: hello@middlegroundmelb.com.au
📱 Follow along on Instagram: @middlegroundmelb
And if you haven’t already — 👉 fill out our SURVEY HERE so we can learn more about your dating experiences and the kind of events you’d love to see.
Because who knows? Your courage to reach out could be the start of something new. 🌱